How To Give A Girl An Orgasm | Mind Blowing Multiple Orgasms
You want to know how to get your partner off, or perhaps how to make her have mind blowing MULTIPLE orgasms? Good, Keep reading.
Before you actually start using the techniques presented in this post it is as always good to get her in the mood rather than just jumping straight into it. Do a sensual massage and work your way through the erogenous zones. Also don’t forget to have well groomed hands and nails.
Now lets get to it, just in case we will start with the basics. Where is the clitoris.
How To Give A Girl An Orgasm | Finding & Stimulating The Clitoris
Finding the clitoris is not very hard. It is a small round bud of pink flesh and it is located just above the vaginal opening as shown in the picture to the left. The clitoris is covered by the clitoral hood which is the small fold of tissue. It protects the clitoris from over-stimulation. Some women is not satisfied by direct stimulation but rather through the sides or the top of the clitoral hood. Now lets move on to the good stuff, how to make your partner go crazy.
There is several ways to stimulate the clitoris to get a girl off, in this post we will talk about a technique that is my personal favorite. First things first guys, the clitoris is very sensitive. There is no need to be very rough or you’ll give her pain rather than pleasure.
Do slow, gentle circles around the clitoris. This is the way most women masturbate. Be persistent and have a consistent motion. Don’t go crazy (leave that to her), doing any intense rubbing from side to side, just keep it nice and simple. Don’t be surprised if she orgasms quickly.
How To Give A Girl An Orgasm | The Mind Blowing Orgasms
If you haven’t read our post about G-spot stimulation, you can find it here. It answers where is the g spot and what to do for stimulation. This section is extremely simple, you almost get upset about not having thought about it before. Combine stimulating the clitoris with the G-spot technique and trust me, do it correctly and you
will be amazed by what you’re doing to your partner. It’s a good feeling for you and most definitely for your partner.
How To Give A Girl An Orgasm | Top 5 Mistakes To Avoid
Now that you know what to do, lets cover what NOT to do. These are in my opinion the top 5 most common mistakes.
Lack of communication. Talking is important, tell her what you like and find out what she likes, or doesn’t like. If you feel uncomfortable the best tip I can give you is don’t. I can’t stress enough how much it will ease things up if you come from the mindset that it’s no big deal, humor can do wonders.
Taking a pause. Just don’t do it, she might be close to an orgasm and when you decide to “stop for a small break” you might just have to start all over again.
Blowing on the clit. Yes, people actually do this. It dries up lubrication and causes discomfort. (Breathing warmly is not the same thing).
Not using enough lubrication.
Now we got you covered with the basics, although there’s more to learn. Luckily some great products exists out there that will make your woman not crave for more, but crave for you just like an addiction.
Please by all means – use what you’ve learned liberally,
All the best!
Perhaps you did not know this, but women can have many different types of orgasms; although there is one that stands out as the single most pleasurable and powerful orgasm a woman can have. And that is the famous (and sadly, all to often ignored) “G-spot orgasm”.
Clitoral, A-spot, Deep spot, U-spot, and even squirting orgasms are all great, but when being compared to the G-spot they just look pale . So now, I’m going to learn you how to not only locate a woman’s G-spot, but also give her so much pleasure, that you will drive her absolutely wild. Be ready though; once you do this properly to your partner, she will insist you do it each and every time you have sex.
How To Give A Girl An Orgasm | FINDING THE G-SPOT
So, where is the g spot? First of all, the G-spot isn’t actually a “spot”, it’s an entire area located about 2 inches inside the vagina on the upper vaginal wall (see the picture below).
So when you have your partner lying on her back, insert your middle finger in to her vagina, with your palm facing upwards. Stroke your finger along her upper vaginal wall until you find something that feels like a ribbed surface, similar to the inside of your mouth, right behind your top row of front teeth.
How To Give A Girl An Orgasm | STIMULATING THE G-SPOT
Most men probably would probably prefer stimulating the G-spot with the penis, however it’s more difficult to hit the G-spot with the penis. Since all penises isn’t the same size and shape there are different techniques to use, unfortunately we can’t cover them all in this post.
However, if you want to learn more about (in great detail) the positions that will best stimulate her G-spot you can take a look at the Incredible Sex Video Series no matter what size or shape penis you have.
How To Give A Girl An Orgasm | PLEASURING HER G-SPOT
So, how to give a girl an orgasm? Now she should be all warmed up and ready for you to take charge. With her laying on her back, and you kneeling in front of her, with your middle and ring or pointer fingers touching her G-spot. How to get a girl off when you’ve got this far is not really that hard. You are going to simply want to use a “come over here” motion.
One thing you need to watch out for is the amount of pressure you use when you do this. Most men are very strong, and don’t realize just how much they are using. Remember to be gentle when you are stimulating a woman’s G-spot, because obviously it’s hard for us to enjoy what you’re doing, if is uncomfortable.
So, is she enjoying it?
A lot of times a woman will be really enjoying what her partner is doing to her, but he screws it all up when he starts changing his techniques around. So it’s very important for you to realize that when she is enjoying what you are doing, KEEP DOING IT and do NOT CHANGE IT.
Okay, so how can you be sure that your partner really is satisfied? Well asides from the moaning, screaming, body shaking, and her digging her nails in to you; you could be attentive about her breathing patterns.
If her breathing seems a little erratic, and almost as if she’s panting, then you can be comfortable that you are doing good =)
All too often, people fall in to a rut with their partners. They figure out the techniques that they enjoy, and then stick to them.
You get undressed, use the same old foreplay techniques (in many cases foreplay only lasts a vague 3-5 minutes) and then go straight in to having sex.
This is an easy way to leave your partner wanting more. See, women crave variety and excitement in the bedroom, so it’s very important that you can give it to them. I cannot stress enough how important it is to keep the sex fresh and new, if you really want to enjoy it and KNOW that your partner loves every second of it
So if you are serious about learning the very best techniques in the world, and taking your sex life to the next level, then I suggest you try out the
Incredible Sex Video Series method. It’s already doing WONDERS for me and my partner.
To an awesome sexlife!